10 Minimalist Habits to Simplify Your Life with Style and Ease

1. Buy Nice or Buy Twice

Have you ever bought a cheap pair of shoes only to have them fall apart in just a few weeks? Definitely, I am one of them! There is this quote from my grandmother that always stays with me which goes as “you’re too broke to buy cheap”, and those words do hold wisdom. Spending money on durable items indeed saves you money and stress in the future. Always conduct your research regarding the products and brands before making the purchase. It is not about buying the most expensive product out there available publicly but rather what makes the most sense in terms of value for money and longevity. I remember buying an expensive tote bag and ample this toots my go to more than three years later. Take your time, make wise decisions and see that your spaces are filled with items you love.

2. If It’s Not a Hell Yes, It’s a No

Who hasn’t at some point said yes, a little too readily to something, be it a dry-cleaning receipt, a dress, a coffee date, or even a random gadget? I personally used to inundate myself with ‘meh’ activities until I stumbled across this quote by Derek Sivers: “if it’s not a hell yes, it’s a no.” This approach changes everything. In effect, it is as though you are allowing yourself to forgo the in-between and truly reserve your efforts for what energizes you. The next time you are contemplating that ‘meh’ sweater or pondering what to ink into the flimsy calendar pages of your itinerary, ask yourself: does this excite me? If it does not, let it go. But only if you want a slimmer wardrobe and a less cluttered iCal.

3. Declutter Before You Organize

Like everyone else, I’ve found myself slightly addicted to those TikTok ASMR fridge organization videos. While they are nice to watch, the fridge restocking does not help if the space is filled with clutter. Instead of purchasing stylish organizers, clear the clutter first. My advice is to start with easier tasks, like tackling one drawer or shelf. For each item, ask the questions: Do I use this? Does it make me happy? In this case, I freed myself from half of my kitchen gadgets (yes, I mean you, waffle maker) and it felt liberating. Remember, making space is ultimately a life decision, not purchasing one. After decluttering, organizing becomes a whole lot easier—and trust me, you will be surprised how little stuff actually makes you happy.

4. Use It or Lose It 

This lesson hit home for me when I moved into an apartment with limited space: everything must have a purpose or else it’s simply taking up room. The same applies to that unused dress you have hanging in your closet or expired makeup sitting in your drawer. I try to evaluate my space every few months to make sure everything I own sparks joy, serves a purpose, or otherwise fits my lifestyle. Most recently, I cleared out a stack of books that I had been meaning to read for years, and it felt incredibly liberating. These regular check-ins are important for maintaining a functional and efficient space—no perfection is necessary.

5. Wishlist and Patience 

We all have weaknesses, and for me, shopping is impossible to resist. Seeing a new gadget advertised is enough for me to believe it is a necessary purchase. My wish list saves the day. Whenever I feel tempted by a product, I record its details and price in my phone along with the reason why it interests me. It is possible to wait for one month or even more. In most cases, the desire simply fades, or the need no longer exists. This method has been extremely useful for me (and my credit card) on multiple occasions and has helped me sidestep many financial pitfalls. The next time you are about to buy something online, try this. It can literally serve as a break for your spending.

6. A Place for Everything, Everything in its Place

We all have that one chair where a mountain of clothes tends to pile up. Allow me to make a point, sorting and organizing belongings enables life to become infinitely easier. One of my goals was to ensure my wallet remained in a specific purse pocket and putting my closet in colour order. Now, my space feels serene, my belongings can be found in seconds, and I am no longer in a frantic state. The focus is never on being overly meticulous, rather, lessening stress and searching for items. Choose one area—whether your bag, desk or closet—and expand from there. Regardless of perception, maximum ease and satisfaction can be attained.

7. Don’t Buy a Problem

Let’s picture something—purchasing a stunning rug with the intent of livening up the aesthetics of the living room. Now, your couch appears off and buying new pillows feels almost mandatory. Here’s a better question—does this require additional spending? Many years ago, I decided to bracelet a quirky jacket from a thrift store. The only issue was that it was 3 dress sizes bigger than I wanted. Spoiler alert, it still sits in my closet. Consider whether an item can potentially become a hassle, if so, feel free to bypass. Focus your energy on items that can be purchased with minimal expense and effort.

8. Understand Your Purpose Prior To A Purchase

Ask yourself, what is the reason for that new surgical gadget or new dress? Be truthful. I have previously wanted a product merely due to its brand or because it was on discount. Ridiculous, right? Before purchasing, try to understand your reasoning. Is it a necessity? A joy-sparkler? Or is it simply a passing desire? My wish lists can be so organized that jotting down my reasons stops me from making impulsive purchases. Once, I nearly purchased a rather expensive blender simply because it was “on sale”. However, I started to recall that I seldom make smoothies. Understanding your reason means your spending is purposeful. It also means your area will be free of clutter. 

9. Does It Spark Joy? 

Marie Kondo, I thank you for sharing this extreme helpful guideline. Whether it is a home item or one that you’re considering purchasing, if it does not bring joy, it must be removed. This does not solely pertain to practicality. Instead, focusing on what boosts one’s happiness. I make it a point to hold onto a few sentimental keepsakes like my grandma’s old necklace because they light me up. That random scarf that I bought just because? Donated. When it comes to shopping, ask yourself if holding the product will bring a smile to your face; does this item excite me? If it does not, get rid of it. Your space is meant to represent you.

10. Pay in Full or Pass

The “buy now, pay later” schemes or credit cards seem enticing in our world of instant gratification. Trust me, I have been there convincing myself that I needed something only to forget why when it arrived. Now, my rule is simple: if I can’t pay for something in full today, I can’t afford it. This is forcing me to save, plan, and introspect on what I want. Last year I saved for months to buy a laptop and when I bought it, the feeling was simply rewarding. Delaying gratification keeps your bank account happy while building intention.

Wrapping It Up You do not need to be a minimalist to live a simpler and more intentional life. These habits are like treats to yourself that give you less clutter, less stress, and more room for what you love. Start small, try one or two tips: make a Wishlist or declutter a drawer. Tweak and experiment until you find a version that works for you. You’ve got this and I’m cheering you on for a life that feels lighter, brighter, and totally you. What’s one habit you are excited to try? Let’s keep the conversation going.